So honestly, How many of you reading this right now Understand what the hell is True Love? Is it when you lover does everything in your life for you? Your Lover seems to understand your every needs? Or he got money and he is willing to buy you the moon...
Honestly... I am a guy and like all articles that talks about what guys think about love we think of it very simple...
1. you appear, i see the curves, i see the boobs i see the face, legs, and ass... if it all appeals to me your on my list.
2. then we go in for the fishing and figure out if this person love me for who i am or not... if not .... meh just move on....
3. then we do some test runs and see how they react to what we say and our action to see if its a keeper.
and there you have it the inside look on a guys head about what true love means...
Well i am here to tell you that the above is only one way of looking at it... and i honestly am a guy and i think like that.... but when shyt really goes down... you realize true love is actually made of up bullshyt excuse broken hearted people tried to make up. so other people will find it impossible to achive or find so they can feel their pain as well.
So What is true love for Dear Robert-san. :D
for me after i fell in love i realize that all my wishes of what love is is actually just a dream and a fantasy... if you cant wake up from your dream your relationship will eventually end.
For example if you start a relationship hoping your gf will look like celine dion, and have the same IQ of Hermainy your terribly wrong....or the guy who looks like captain america when he first came out of his capsule so many years ago.
the thing is "no one is perfect" and you need to understand that... once you do what you decide to do is what a responsible adult or teen will do. take necessary action to accept one another.
My gf is not 100% perfect I always look at her like a RAW diamond ready to be polished into a 24 carat diamond to be owned by me. hahaha :D
but before that happens i have to put up with her imperfection and her habbits which sometimes ticks me off a little... but as usually we all have that one thing our lover does that puts us on the edge sometimes and thats totally normal.
I used to think that our lover complete our life like the ying and yang symbol one half is missing when we are born on earth and its our destiny to go search and find the other half.... but once you find it you realize its not white or black like yourself.... its a different color and that changes everything.
Dont Base your relationship of a book, or an novel or a article that was written by another person who knows nothing about your personal life you've experience.
I seriously dont approve when people like to go google up what other people wrote about their own relationship and girls or guys like to base of that relationship as their own. Seriously everything your ead that doesnt apply to you directly its just a simple reference you can follow towards. not the exact same thing you NEED to follow to the "T".
What you can do to think of your own is to seriously talk to the lover ask them what really ticks you off and work around it. find a the ying and yang balance in each others life.... if one weighs too much the balance will be broken.
I guess I just finish putting some of my thoughts into this wonderful blog my gf created of our diary online. Dear this is for you to read as well as all the other people online searching for what true love means because Robert think it doesnt exist want debate on that.... comment below hahah see who wins :D i always love a good debate.
Just look at the person in front of you and figure out what they want and try your best to give it.... and let them know what you want and ask for them to do the same... to me thats how you solve a problem like an adult with common sense. :D
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