What Women wants in a Relationship

Do you heard of 5 love language? I do not know until my boyfriend told me what it is. 5 Love languages including Quality of Time, Words of affirmation, Physical Touch, Acts of Service and Receiving Gifts. Everyone has different love language, so what do you crave for in your relationship? What love language does your partner speak? My boyfriend score highest on Quality of time and Physical Touch.  However, myself prefer Words of Affirmation the most. These 'love languages' apply to both sexes.

However, women do have some desire on these things too:

1. Quality of time



Most couple spend a lot of time together especially the first few month of getting together which some of them known as Honeymoon Period. But how to consider as quality of time? Being aside each other does not mean quality of time but just physically present. However, quality of time is time that both of you do things together without any distraction or any interruption. Previously I do not know how to spend quality of time with my boyfriend until he complained me about I always look at my phone instead of talking to him. Yes, quality of time including putting your phone aside.

2. Surprise

So, how do you keep your relationship fresh every now and then, this apply to both sex. Every surprise makes your partner look forward to have more dates with you. So, how do you surprise your girlfriend? Surprise her with a impromptu getaway on weekend; hide sweet notes in her bag; turn up with some flowers when there is not any special occasion to do so; tell her to get dress immediately because you just booked a table at her favourite restaurant. Such sweet gestures can make women feel appreciated and keep her excited. From the other side, how do I surprise my boyfriend? For what I think, I think the best way to surprise your boyfriend is to dress up and make up yourself differently makes him feel surprise.

3. To be understood in our language.

Sometimes, men and women tend to speak in the same language, however, the meaning of female and male brings different meaning. For example, when women says she is fine, but most of the time she isn't.

4. To be praised

We all know inner beauty should be the focus instead of physical appearance , but let's face it, humans are all visual creatures. Everyone tend to feel better when they think they look good. SO let your woman know she is beautiful in your eyes no matter what state she is in; tell her she looks gorgeous; compliment her on her new haircut or outfit; tell her how sweet she looks when she laughs. This show how much attention you pay to the little details of her. On the other hand, same goes to men, they need to be praise as often too. For me, I think everyone love to be praised in order to have motivation to improve and go further.

5. To be your princess, to feel special

Women love to be treated as you princess by making her feel like she is exclusive yours. Show her off in front of your friends because you are proud of her; give her pet names; do things for her and only for her; draw line clearly with your female friends so she feels secured.



SO, do you remember why you fell in love with her? What have she done that touched you? Do you say "I love you" to her everyday? Remember of why he/she fell in love with you, what acts of you makes he/ she loves you, don't stop doing them, he/she will start feel something went missing. Maintain your behavior and commit then only you will see future of both of you.

XOXO Summer