What Women wants in a Relationship

Do you heard of 5 love language? I do not know until my boyfriend told me what it is. 5 Love languages including Quality of Time, Words of affirmation, Physical Touch, Acts of Service and Receiving Gifts. Everyone has different love language, so what do you crave for in your relationship? What love language does your partner speak? My boyfriend score highest on Quality of time and Physical Touch.  However, myself prefer Words of Affirmation the most. These 'love languages' apply to both sexes.

However, women do have some desire on these things too:

1. Quality of time

情侶必看！吵架後愉快和好的方法

情侣吵架，大多都是女生先不爽，男生就会不停解释或跟在女的身后。那你们怎样和解的呢？我的那个他就超有办法。。。

1. 爽快承认做错了

认错不代表输哦。当世界只有两个人的时候， 何必在乎自尊心呢？就说声“我错了。。” 问题就解决了嘛~

2. 时间不要拖太长

当吵架时间一长， 会让人开始沉思这段感情，想着他真的适合我吗？是我要找的那个人吗？重新确认这份感情的意义，所以时间拖越久越难回到以前甜蜜的感觉。 

3. 约出来， 当面说开来

面对面说清楚自己的想法，也让对方有机会说出看法，透过对话，让两人能更了解对方在想什么，如果是在信息对话，文字无法传达对方的表情，可能只会越来越糟。

4. 准备小礼物

为了道歉能更加融洽，道歉的同时送出小礼物，在怎么的火气也能软化，这个我绝对赞同，必要时也可以撒娇一下。

5. 微微的肢体接触

相识勾勾手臂，牵手等小动作，让对方知道自己有和解的意思

6. 假装认输

不管哪一方做错事很过分，一方先低头认错。

夏天<3

     

 

It's hard to trust you when I'm still hurt from the last time you let me drown

Sometimes, people break up for a reason. Often it has to do with lack of trust. The undeniable truth is, we all have a reasons why not to trust. What I mean by this is that we have all felt hurt and disappointed. We all have suffered in some ways, and we all have felt pain in relationships.

Is this an impossible task asking someone to earn our trust by asking them not to cause us to feel uncomfortable feelings? In fact, you probably can guarantee is that you will feel hurt sometimes by the people you love. Fear make us do some crazy sh*t. It's unfortunate but true.

I hope I can tell myself "I know that deep down you are a good person with good intentions". We wish those things had never happened and I'm really struggling with trying to forget, get past this... ...

by Summer...

Is a broken heart the best thing that ever happened to you??

If there were no heartbreak, some of the greatest songs ever written might not even exist. No matter who you are, heartbreak is the reality.

Sometimes, you will be thankful to that certain people when you look back. The opportunities and things were removed from your life and you would never found yourself until you lost them. Sometimes, we get to caught up worrying about what we lost, rather than realizing what we are gaining in absence.

当你的女人哭泣时，你要记得...

或许吧，争吵后的两个人，

都会不由自主地认为自己是对的...

我知道那并不是你的错，

但我也不认为这是我的错，

你知道有时候看着手机，多么想要你的安慰，

嘴里很倔强但眼泪却不争气地留下了。

你知道一个女人最伤心的时候，

并不是在你与她争吵的时候吗？

一个女人最伤心的时候，

当她成为你的 When She Becomes Yours

你怎么知道当你真正喜欢一个人？

当你就连她的打喷嚏也觉得可爱的时候，对其他人来说根本就是恶心。就算在沙发上看电视机的时候她把脚抬起来放在你的腿上，你也觉得很享受。

如何把她完全当成已是你的一份子了？

Cherishing The Moment

Hey guys Robert here bring you another post :D
as happy as a relationship maybe, but the truth is there will always be conflick. Heck until today i even have conflict between my mom and sister. Honestly to me, i find this very normal and nothing wrong about. That is exactly how person will grow up and learn to live among one another of different race, skin, character...etc.

I remember a friend of mine once told me when i ask her "your relationship is so awesome i admired you guys so much" however,

Ladies & Men can NEVER just be friend

So... I am blogging again ~~!!!What I do on my free time is to blog or when I am on bad mood =) Talking to myself is the best way to cure maybe? or maybe not... 

Disclaimer: This post is not related with my relationship.

Today's post is about ladies and men can NEVER just be friend. Wonderful male friend who offers you a shoulder to cry or company when you can't get accompany, if a man said they absolutely no sexual interest in you, that man probably is a liar. I did told my boyfriend about this. However, he do not agree with this statement.  I asked my boyfriend make sure he don't do anything to me till I need to cry on other's man shoulder. 

 Guy always have fantasy on their female friends.

How strong is your relationship?

Do you realize that,that feeling of love is always sweet at the beginning of every relationship. Always feel that you finally are not alone, one more person to share with, and at least someone is thinking of you, loving you. No matter in what kind of situation, as long as together, that is good. 

However, slowly, we get to know each other better, we started to know each other weaknesses, problems keep on popping up. That feeling of annoyed, tired or the worst is thought of giving up the relationship.