Sometimes, you will be thankful to that certain people when you look back. The opportunities and things were removed from your life and you would never found yourself until you lost them. Sometimes, we get to caught up worrying about what we lost, rather than realizing what we are gaining in absence.
It is a wake up call. You know when you are so dead in your sleep, that not even thunderstorm can wake you? Well, meet heartbreak, it is a good thing to wake you up because that life storm was about to eradicate you while you slept.
Even if the love did now last, it prepared you for the one that will. The truth is, you will be sad to see your ex go, but you will be happy when you finally get to move on. The rejections in your life makes room for more opportunities. The person who turned you down is only propelling you toward the person who will snatch you up. Some people might only be temporary, but the lesson they teach you will last forever. Not everyone is meant to remain permanently in your life. We can't force everyone to stay.But I am not saying you should not work in a relationship during the trials.
I have seen people got suicidal thoughts over heartbreak. Although it hurts, never forget about the love you do have in your life.
Heartbreak will make you brave, one of the most daring things you can do is let go of what is hurting you. Sometimes in life, we have to surrender and simply accept that the past is behind us. Stop asking how the pain will end, instead, focus on what it taught you and what is important to you to move on.
Let your past make you better, not bitter. Will it be easy? Hell no, but it will be so worth it. You might not have realized it before, but the person who broke your heart might have been acting as a safety net for you. He or she might have been shielding you from becoming everything you are meant to be.
After I faced such a heartbreak moment, I learned to be brave enough to walk alone and walk with head held high. We all know the saying, "It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all." Loving is always a risk.
Even though I came out hurt, I grew and I learned. I love a little differently each and every time. Each love is a new love and a learning experience. What we learn, what we become and what we experience is sometimes even more important than for what or whom we are actually waiting. There is a purpose behind everything you are going through.
As humans, we are faced with a choice, we can either stick to the past and miss out on our future or we can do our best for a brighter tomorrow. You cannot always control what happens to you, but you can control what you do with it. I know it hurts, but you can and will make it. Your wounds will make you wiser.
Now is your chance to steal your show back. Be you, and be free. Take your strength back from the person who hurt you, and rip off your disguise, super person. It is time to show the world who you are becoming.
XOXO Summer
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